1 00:00:02,830 --> 00:00:07,010 On November the 9th, Abby and I are getting married. Dad, that's three weeks 2 00:00:07,010 --> 00:00:11,030 away. Don't you think we ought to find out what they really want? I don't think 3 00:00:11,030 --> 00:00:12,610 they know what they really want. 4 00:00:13,070 --> 00:00:18,250 Black caviar here, and then in the center, an ice statue of the bride and 5 00:00:18,490 --> 00:00:20,910 nude. No, Mom's not coming back. 6 00:00:21,270 --> 00:00:25,210 Yes, she is. She's a good mother. Good mothers don't leave their kids forever 7 00:00:25,210 --> 00:00:26,089 and ever. 8 00:00:26,090 --> 00:00:27,090 Did you have a fight? 9 00:00:27,530 --> 00:00:31,850 We just wanted this very simple wedding, and the kids planned this very 10 00:00:31,850 --> 00:00:32,850 elaborate one. 11 00:00:32,970 --> 00:00:34,210 Do you love Tom? 12 00:00:34,570 --> 00:00:35,570 Yeah. 13 00:00:36,350 --> 00:00:41,450 It's the first ingredient of a good marriage, and the rest is just hard 14 00:00:41,770 --> 00:00:46,970 Oh, Mom, I really want work, but I just don't know what to do, you know? 15 00:00:47,350 --> 00:00:53,610 Well, the only advice I can give you is make up the quarrel before you get 16 00:00:53,610 --> 00:00:54,610 married. 17 00:00:55,190 --> 00:00:56,810 I thought it was, um... 18 00:00:57,490 --> 00:00:59,490 Make up the quarrels before you go to bed. 19 00:01:01,330 --> 00:01:02,330 That too. 20 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:49,760 present if they elope? 21 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,760 Yeah, I guess so, as long as they're still getting married. 22 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,020 Do you know what your thing is yet? 23 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:05,980 Well... Not exactly. 24 00:02:09,460 --> 00:02:12,920 Oh, okay, here comes Abby. Now you keep quiet and let me do the talking, okay? 25 00:02:13,540 --> 00:02:14,540 Okay. 26 00:02:26,450 --> 00:02:28,850 Abby, we'd like to talk to you. You're going to reload. 27 00:02:29,250 --> 00:02:30,250 Nicholas. 28 00:02:31,930 --> 00:02:34,370 Could you come into the house? 29 00:02:34,650 --> 00:02:37,790 Look, I just came back to return Tom's car. 30 00:02:38,210 --> 00:02:40,190 Could you just come into the house for a minute, please? 31 00:02:41,490 --> 00:02:44,730 Well... Nicholas, go get Dad. 32 00:02:54,950 --> 00:02:56,570 We've decided to keep our hands off. 33 00:02:57,070 --> 00:03:00,170 It's your wedding, and if you want to elope, then you elope. 34 00:03:01,330 --> 00:03:06,350 Of course, we'd like a wedding, but we'll just give it up. 35 00:03:08,530 --> 00:03:11,810 The important thing is, we don't want to see you apart just because of us. 36 00:03:13,250 --> 00:03:14,250 All right. 37 00:03:14,610 --> 00:03:19,350 Well, if that's the way you feel about it, why don't you get out of here so we 38 00:03:19,350 --> 00:03:20,329 can talk about it? 39 00:03:20,330 --> 00:03:21,770 Okay. Oh, yay. 40 00:03:22,730 --> 00:03:23,730 That's nice. 41 00:03:33,310 --> 00:03:34,650 How are your folks? 42 00:03:35,370 --> 00:03:36,370 They're fine. 43 00:03:36,450 --> 00:03:37,530 What did you say to them? 44 00:03:37,790 --> 00:03:38,790 Not much. 45 00:03:39,070 --> 00:03:40,190 I cried a lot. 46 00:03:40,450 --> 00:03:41,429 Oh, that sucks. 47 00:03:41,430 --> 00:03:42,430 How's Elizabeth? 48 00:03:42,630 --> 00:03:45,010 Oh, she won't even talk to me. 49 00:03:45,730 --> 00:03:49,690 David says I should give her time to adjust to... to things. 50 00:03:50,570 --> 00:03:52,610 Things? You mean me, don't you? 51 00:03:52,830 --> 00:03:53,830 No, no, no. 52 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,540 I mean, I think that she would have reacted this way to whoever was going to 53 00:03:57,540 --> 00:03:58,540 replace her mother. 54 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:03,000 Oh, Tom, if one of your kids runs away because you're getting remarried, well 55 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:07,660 then... Abby, I can't change my life because of Elizabeth. I love her very 56 00:04:07,740 --> 00:04:09,140 but there are nine other people involved. 57 00:04:09,500 --> 00:04:12,940 If I had just gone and got married and didn't make such a big deal out of this, 58 00:04:13,020 --> 00:04:15,280 she probably would have accepted it. You think so? 59 00:04:15,580 --> 00:04:16,580 Yes, I do. 60 00:04:17,380 --> 00:04:20,040 Look, what do you say we elope? 61 00:04:20,899 --> 00:04:24,820 Yes, we can get to Reno in two hours and be back in a couple of hours. Then the 62 00:04:24,820 --> 00:04:27,460 whole thing will be done and over with. What do you say? Well, that's just it. 63 00:04:27,540 --> 00:04:29,460 It's so done and over with. 64 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,300 You better tell me what you're thinking before we have another battle. 65 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,940 I was just thinking that the kids are awfully disappointed. 66 00:04:37,420 --> 00:04:40,420 But they said it would be all right. They just said that because they were 67 00:04:40,420 --> 00:04:41,840 afraid we wouldn't get married otherwise. 68 00:04:42,340 --> 00:04:45,380 Tom, this wedding... Well, I mean, if there really is a wedding... 69 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,820 It's really for them. I mean, we've been married before. 70 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:52,100 And besides, I think it would be so nice for the kids to be at their father's 71 00:04:52,100 --> 00:04:56,840 wedding. And, well, maybe it'll help them accept me a little more, too, you 72 00:04:56,840 --> 00:04:57,840 know? 73 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,760 When you married Frank, was it a formal wedding? 74 00:05:03,140 --> 00:05:04,540 It was the justice of the peace. 75 00:05:04,840 --> 00:05:05,840 Mm -hmm. 76 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,800 You want a formal wedding, don't you? 77 00:05:08,060 --> 00:05:09,060 I want you more. 78 00:05:09,380 --> 00:05:10,400 Why not have both? 79 00:05:11,300 --> 00:05:12,300 Could we? 80 00:05:12,740 --> 00:05:13,900 But no caterer. 81 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:15,540 No affair by Keith. 82 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,060 Just a simple affair. 83 00:05:18,260 --> 00:05:19,840 Small and dignified. 84 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,080 Right. I love you. 85 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,060 We're going to have the reception at home. 86 00:05:33,280 --> 00:05:40,280 Yes, I know it's only six days before the wedding, but... No, I don't 87 00:05:40,280 --> 00:05:41,540 think the country club is nicer. 88 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,060 Bigger, maybe, but not nicer. 89 00:05:46,540 --> 00:05:47,540 Thank you. 90 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,500 What? Remind me never to have my wedding reception there. Who's next? 91 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:54,360 Keith. 92 00:05:54,540 --> 00:05:56,460 You started the affair with Keith. 93 00:05:56,900 --> 00:05:57,900 You finished it. 94 00:05:59,700 --> 00:06:00,700 Hey. 95 00:06:22,890 --> 00:06:28,750 You see, I was taught in the seminary to say something like, now, you two young 96 00:06:28,750 --> 00:06:30,450 people, do you know what you're getting into? 97 00:06:30,970 --> 00:06:35,250 But in this situation, it just doesn't seem to fit. 98 00:06:40,270 --> 00:06:41,690 Something? Help me. 99 00:06:43,090 --> 00:06:44,090 Uh -huh. 100 00:06:44,270 --> 00:06:49,630 Well, perhaps you could just say, as you approach your middle years. 101 00:06:49,970 --> 00:06:50,970 Middle years? 102 00:06:52,460 --> 00:06:53,800 Hey, middle years. 103 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,880 I like that. Let me just make a note of that, okay? 104 00:06:57,700 --> 00:06:59,040 Early middle years. 105 00:07:05,100 --> 00:07:06,100 Now what? 106 00:07:07,840 --> 00:07:10,860 Oh, let's see. 107 00:07:11,300 --> 00:07:13,340 Perhaps you might say that, well, 108 00:07:14,300 --> 00:07:15,780 we've both known love before. 109 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,800 You've both known love before? 110 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:24,140 Very good love. 111 00:07:26,420 --> 00:07:27,420 Good love. 112 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,840 And, um... To base this love on that. 113 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:34,660 On that? Okay. 114 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:37,300 And to remember that love. 115 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:39,940 But to build our own together. 116 00:07:41,700 --> 00:07:42,700 Together. 117 00:07:43,180 --> 00:07:44,200 Our own together. 118 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,380 And to honor each other. 119 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:48,640 And to respect each other. 120 00:07:52,780 --> 00:07:57,060 And in that love, to allow each other to grow independently. 121 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,200 Independently. Wait just a second. Let me get all of this. Okay. 122 00:08:03,220 --> 00:08:04,220 Right. 123 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,240 Okay, wonderful. I think it's going to be a lovely wedding. 124 00:08:24,910 --> 00:08:26,570 we should just write our own wedding ceremony. 125 00:08:26,890 --> 00:08:28,530 Oh, I thought we just did. 126 00:08:29,490 --> 00:08:32,830 Well, I just hope your Reverend Lowell is a little less shaky than young 127 00:08:32,830 --> 00:08:35,610 Reverend Corbett. Oh, no, Reverend Lowell is an old pro. 128 00:08:35,870 --> 00:08:36,729 How old? 129 00:08:36,730 --> 00:08:43,049 Well, the gubernatorial inauguration of 1953, he swore in Goodwin Knight. Oh, 130 00:08:43,070 --> 00:08:44,290 that was before my time. 131 00:08:44,550 --> 00:08:49,430 Huh? Oh, yeah, sure was. Well, you can't blame a lady for trying. 132 00:10:01,390 --> 00:10:03,430 What's the matter, Dad? Did you throw your back out? 133 00:10:21,550 --> 00:10:22,550 Did you get a tuck? 134 00:10:22,570 --> 00:10:26,430 Yes, the same one that I used to rent for $5 more than I used to pay. Come on, 135 00:10:26,450 --> 00:10:29,790 we have to pick up your folks. Oh, just let me get the salad together first. 136 00:10:29,850 --> 00:10:33,870 Why, isn't anybody helping you? Well, Tommy and Nicholas are cleaning up the 137 00:10:33,870 --> 00:10:36,130 living room, and I don't know where anybody else is. 138 00:10:36,450 --> 00:10:37,870 Would you get me two more tomatoes? 139 00:10:38,130 --> 00:10:39,130 Yeah. 140 00:10:44,750 --> 00:10:49,110 Well, they'll be your grandparents in a way, Nicholas, but actually they'll be 141 00:10:49,110 --> 00:10:50,250 your step -grandparents. 142 00:10:52,650 --> 00:10:55,110 It means don't expect the whole lot at Christmas. 143 00:10:55,790 --> 00:10:57,190 Okay, boys, you're in charge. 144 00:10:57,590 --> 00:10:58,590 What? 145 00:11:01,830 --> 00:11:05,150 Look, nobody else is home. We have to go and pick up the Mitchells, so you 146 00:11:05,150 --> 00:11:06,230 finish up, the two of you. 147 00:11:06,490 --> 00:11:07,489 Finish what? 148 00:11:07,490 --> 00:11:11,350 Oh, it's easy. You just turn off the oven at 5 .30, put the soup on to simmer 149 00:11:11,350 --> 00:11:15,070 5 .45, and turn off the burner under the casserole at 6 o 'clock. And finish up 150 00:11:15,070 --> 00:11:15,829 in here. 151 00:11:15,830 --> 00:11:17,470 Oh, and set the dining room table. 152 00:11:17,830 --> 00:11:21,110 Oh, and listen, Nicholas, if you have time, pick some flowers for the 153 00:11:21,110 --> 00:11:22,110 centerpiece. 154 00:11:22,700 --> 00:11:23,539 What's that? 155 00:11:23,540 --> 00:11:27,880 The decorations for the middle of the table. We have to do all of that? Well, 156 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:29,800 anybody else comes home, grab her. 157 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:37,160 Hey, Nicholas. 158 00:11:37,460 --> 00:11:40,380 You got any idea what time we're supposed to do all that junk in the 159 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:42,160 Nope. Let's see. 160 00:11:42,460 --> 00:11:45,040 Put a fire in the casserole at six. 161 00:11:45,860 --> 00:11:46,860 Hey, where are you going? 162 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,680 To pick some flowers for the thing in the middle of the table. 163 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:52,160 Maybe it was... 164 00:11:52,380 --> 00:11:53,960 Put a fire under the soup at six. 165 00:11:57,740 --> 00:11:58,740 Oh, well. 166 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,300 The point is, they are getting married, and you're not going to stop them. 167 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:05,780 I'm not trying to stop them. 168 00:12:06,780 --> 00:12:08,500 I just don't want to have any part of it. 169 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,660 Sooner or later, you're going to have to move back in and live with Abby. 170 00:12:13,100 --> 00:12:14,400 Why? I'm happy here. 171 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:18,140 Well, that makes one of us. 172 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,380 I moved away from the house because I wanted to live alone. 173 00:12:25,460 --> 00:12:26,460 Okay. 174 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,700 Then I'll find someplace else to live. 175 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:31,160 Fine. 176 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,560 Just be sure to lock the door on your way out. 177 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:38,140 If you decide to hang around, don't wait up for me. 178 00:13:46,489 --> 00:13:48,010 Are you here already? 179 00:13:48,950 --> 00:13:52,230 This is our youngest, Nicholas. Nicholas, I want you to meet my mother 180 00:13:52,230 --> 00:13:55,510 father, Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell. And this is my great -aunt. 181 00:13:55,870 --> 00:13:58,630 She'd be your great -great -aunt. My Aunt Filty. 182 00:13:58,870 --> 00:14:00,710 I thought all great -great -aunts were dead. 183 00:14:01,030 --> 00:14:03,950 And I thought little boys were supposed to mind their manners. 184 00:14:11,839 --> 00:14:13,140 Well, thank you, Mr. Lewis. 185 00:14:13,380 --> 00:14:14,380 My pleasure, girls. 186 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:16,000 See ya. 187 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,840 Well, we were going to be late for dinner, so Mr. Lewis brought us by. 188 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:28,579 that nice of him? 189 00:14:28,580 --> 00:14:29,580 Yeah. 190 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,880 Come on, Split. 191 00:14:30,900 --> 00:14:32,900 Let's get out of our desserts and dress for dinner. 192 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:34,600 Okay, Maud. 193 00:15:00,270 --> 00:15:04,410 Yes, we like it. So many of us, we really need something like this. But 194 00:15:04,410 --> 00:15:05,410 come on in and relax. 195 00:15:05,590 --> 00:15:09,790 I've arranged for a guide to take us all through the capital. You just name the 196 00:15:09,790 --> 00:15:11,650 time whenever it's convenient for you. 197 00:15:11,950 --> 00:15:16,170 Oh, now, that won't be necessary, Bradford. We've already made 198 00:15:16,170 --> 00:15:16,909 do that. 199 00:15:16,910 --> 00:15:21,950 Governor Brown, Pat, not Jerry, has asked his son to be our guide. 200 00:15:22,350 --> 00:15:26,210 Oh, Jerry has... Jerry, I mean, the governor is going to... 201 00:15:27,470 --> 00:15:29,730 Well, his father's a very old friend of mine. 202 00:15:30,470 --> 00:15:31,710 How has Jerry been? 203 00:15:32,170 --> 00:15:36,370 Oh, he seems just... Oh, I don't even know him. Either one of them, for that 204 00:15:36,370 --> 00:15:38,210 matter. It's no great loss. 205 00:15:39,070 --> 00:15:41,850 We haven't had a decent governor since Goody Night. 206 00:15:42,210 --> 00:15:44,710 Ah, well, now, Goody Night. 207 00:15:47,850 --> 00:15:48,850 Goody. 208 00:15:51,650 --> 00:15:54,670 Well, I'm a fourth generation Californian. 209 00:15:55,690 --> 00:15:56,710 And I'm fifth. 210 00:15:59,150 --> 00:16:00,570 It makes me sixth, I guess. 211 00:16:03,310 --> 00:16:07,590 Well, here we are. Not ashamed to admit that we are homegrown Californians. And 212 00:16:07,590 --> 00:16:08,590 very proud to be. 213 00:16:08,790 --> 00:16:10,030 That's wonderful. Good evening. 214 00:16:10,350 --> 00:16:12,810 Look who's here. This is David, my eldest son. 215 00:16:13,190 --> 00:16:15,790 This is Harry and Catherine Mitchell. 216 00:16:16,070 --> 00:16:18,170 Hello. And this is Aunt Filty. 217 00:16:18,450 --> 00:16:19,450 How do you do? 218 00:16:19,550 --> 00:16:22,890 Oh, look what David has gone and done. He went and got some wine. Isn't that 219 00:16:22,890 --> 00:16:27,450 nice? Right. A French burgundy. I figured tonight was too special for 220 00:16:27,450 --> 00:16:28,450 California. 221 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,360 When are we supposed to turn this stuff off? 222 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,780 Oh, no. 223 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,640 What's happening? 224 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,360 Nicholas, Nicholas, go get Abby, okay? 225 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,360 Tommy, help me with the roast. 226 00:16:56,060 --> 00:16:57,420 What's left of the roast? 227 00:17:00,250 --> 00:17:01,810 Ah! Fire! 228 00:17:03,410 --> 00:17:05,210 There's no fire. 229 00:17:05,470 --> 00:17:07,210 The roast set off the alarm. 230 00:17:07,410 --> 00:17:08,410 Oh, the roast! 231 00:17:08,910 --> 00:17:10,550 Does anyone want a taco? 232 00:17:11,170 --> 00:17:12,550 It's very California. 233 00:17:21,250 --> 00:17:23,130 Ah! Oh, listen! 234 00:17:23,390 --> 00:17:24,390 Ah, no. 235 00:17:24,609 --> 00:17:25,609 Yes, again. 236 00:17:26,310 --> 00:17:27,470 Ah, listen, Nancy. 237 00:17:27,790 --> 00:17:29,830 You can steal these back after the shower, okay? 238 00:17:30,710 --> 00:17:31,710 Dang it. 239 00:17:31,950 --> 00:17:33,210 I thought you were Elizabeth. 240 00:17:33,410 --> 00:17:35,030 I thought maybe she'd come back or something. 241 00:17:36,270 --> 00:17:37,270 Nah, no chance. 242 00:17:39,230 --> 00:17:42,510 You know, I called her, you know, to remind her about the shower. 243 00:17:42,930 --> 00:17:45,170 She hung up as soon as she recognized my voice. 244 00:17:46,070 --> 00:17:47,070 Same here. 245 00:17:47,670 --> 00:17:48,730 Joanie, what are we going to do? 246 00:17:49,050 --> 00:17:51,170 Nothing. Yeah, but Joanie, I... Just forget it. 247 00:17:52,390 --> 00:17:53,630 I mean, she had the... 248 00:17:54,610 --> 00:17:57,590 hang up about this, and I think only Dad can straighten it out. 249 00:17:58,730 --> 00:17:59,770 Yeah, you're probably right. 250 00:18:00,770 --> 00:18:02,190 But he's been so busy lately. 251 00:18:03,790 --> 00:18:06,710 You know, if Mom were here, she'd know how to handle this. 252 00:18:08,310 --> 00:18:10,190 If Mom were here, there'd be nothing to handle. 253 00:18:12,290 --> 00:18:13,290 Yeah. 254 00:18:17,190 --> 00:18:20,970 Hey, Joanie, can I borrow you? Let me get dressed first, okay? And then after 255 00:18:20,970 --> 00:18:22,810 that, anything in my closet is up for grabs. 256 00:18:43,250 --> 00:18:44,250 David's not here. 257 00:18:44,370 --> 00:18:45,570 I came to see you. 258 00:18:47,230 --> 00:18:49,590 Well, you've seen me. Now I've got to finish up some things, okay? 259 00:18:50,130 --> 00:18:51,330 Wait, please. 260 00:18:51,730 --> 00:18:54,950 You know how much you helped me out with my Halloween costume, right? 261 00:18:55,570 --> 00:18:59,710 So? So I figured I'd owe you one. Here, it's my old panda. 262 00:18:59,990 --> 00:19:02,970 His ear's about to fall off, but it still works pretty good. 263 00:19:07,090 --> 00:19:08,090 Now I've got to go. 264 00:19:08,670 --> 00:19:09,670 See you later. 265 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:23,800 Dr. Max, stay home. Come on. 266 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:25,480 It's time. 267 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,440 Yeah. Ta -da! 268 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,680 Are you ready? Let's go. 269 00:19:31,100 --> 00:19:33,180 Oh, my Christmas. 270 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:38,020 Oh, Dad, you were supposed to finish. I know, but I'm having trouble with this 271 00:19:38,020 --> 00:19:41,380 stalk. What is this stalk stuff, huh? 272 00:19:41,660 --> 00:19:44,000 Hi. Doesn't Abby look pretty, Dad? Yeah. 273 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:45,620 Look at this wound. 274 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:48,580 It's going to be over us. 275 00:19:49,830 --> 00:19:51,050 Look at the cake. The cake. 276 00:19:51,290 --> 00:19:53,130 Behind you. Oh, the cake. The cake. 277 00:19:58,210 --> 00:19:59,990 There's this little baby on the cake. 278 00:20:00,550 --> 00:20:01,550 There's this baby. 279 00:20:02,210 --> 00:20:03,510 What is this little baby? 280 00:20:04,450 --> 00:20:08,330 Girls, this is... Oh, I don't know what, but... 281 00:20:09,350 --> 00:20:10,350 Well, I love it. 282 00:20:10,550 --> 00:20:13,750 Well, we figured since you were getting eight babies at once, a baby shower 283 00:20:13,750 --> 00:20:14,750 would be the most appropriate. 284 00:20:15,250 --> 00:20:18,830 Don't worry. They told everyone to bring wedding -type presents. Oh. Happy 285 00:20:18,830 --> 00:20:19,789 shower. Oh. 286 00:20:19,790 --> 00:20:20,870 Happy stag party. 287 00:20:21,470 --> 00:20:23,130 Which we better be getting to. 288 00:20:23,670 --> 00:20:25,210 Have a good time. You take care of her. 289 00:20:25,570 --> 00:20:26,570 Bye, Dad. 290 00:20:26,830 --> 00:20:28,270 Bye. Live it up, Papa. 291 00:20:34,449 --> 00:20:36,530 Maybe we should just go to some little bar. 292 00:20:37,150 --> 00:20:38,790 What? And miss our stag party? 293 00:20:39,070 --> 00:20:40,070 Whose stag party? 294 00:20:40,190 --> 00:20:44,330 Our stag party. I thought it up. Well, you're the one that's not going. You can 295 00:20:44,330 --> 00:20:45,269 go to the shower. 296 00:20:45,270 --> 00:20:47,590 But I've taken a shower. I want to go to the stag party. 297 00:20:48,510 --> 00:20:49,650 And you're over 21. 298 00:20:50,830 --> 00:20:55,310 But I thought this whole thing up. I mean, I made the plans. I finalized the 299 00:20:55,310 --> 00:20:59,010 plans. I booked all of the... Entertainment? 300 00:21:03,020 --> 00:21:07,920 But you see, stag parties are not good for a boy your age. They do things to 301 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:08,920 adrenaline. 302 00:21:10,420 --> 00:21:11,500 I'll take some pictures. 303 00:21:11,900 --> 00:21:13,560 I thought it was my stag party. 304 00:21:21,820 --> 00:21:23,200 That's a great party, Greg. 305 00:21:23,460 --> 00:21:26,640 When Tommy and I throw a party, we throw a party. Far. 306 00:21:26,940 --> 00:21:27,940 Far out. 307 00:21:29,300 --> 00:21:30,440 Who's that with David? 308 00:21:33,900 --> 00:21:35,160 He insisted on coming. 309 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:39,760 Well, now, this reminds me of the Republican Convention in 1958. 310 00:21:40,260 --> 00:21:41,360 What was it, 62? 311 00:21:41,820 --> 00:21:43,040 Oh, goody. Ah. 312 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:55,260 She wants Ray out. 313 00:22:06,090 --> 00:22:07,970 That is grapefruit juice and vodka. 314 00:22:08,450 --> 00:22:11,330 Hey, how do you know those things, huh? 315 00:22:11,550 --> 00:22:15,430 Oh, I picked it up in the book. I thought it may come in handy for my stag 316 00:22:15,430 --> 00:22:16,430 party. 317 00:22:18,930 --> 00:22:21,730 It'll come in handy here, so get going and hurry up, huh? 318 00:22:21,930 --> 00:22:24,230 Does anyone around here know how to make a vodka giblet? 319 00:22:25,390 --> 00:22:27,750 That's a gimlet. Yes, I've got it. 320 00:22:29,810 --> 00:22:31,770 You think I pour too much of this stuff, huh? 321 00:22:32,190 --> 00:22:34,730 Well, somebody's bound to want champagne, I hope. 322 00:22:40,590 --> 00:22:42,270 Nicholas, what are you doing? 323 00:22:43,570 --> 00:22:45,630 I'm filtering one through the screwdriver. 324 00:22:47,730 --> 00:22:49,630 One screwdriver coming right. 325 00:23:38,210 --> 00:23:44,070 This is the fertility god of an ancient African tribe. Use him in good health. 326 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,540 and gab on the phone. 327 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:16,440 The girl that told Mary will have to be... It's dark. 328 00:24:17,220 --> 00:24:20,700 Gabby, there's a long -distance call for you. Who is it? I don't know. It's a 329 00:24:20,700 --> 00:24:21,700 lady. Oh. 330 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:23,160 Skeeter days. 331 00:24:24,380 --> 00:24:25,620 That's right. I made it myself. 332 00:24:26,020 --> 00:24:27,020 Hello? 333 00:24:28,060 --> 00:24:29,060 Dottie! Dottie, hi! 334 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:30,720 Oh, what? 335 00:24:31,020 --> 00:24:32,020 Didn't you get my letter? 336 00:24:33,300 --> 00:24:34,440 Oh, you didn't. 337 00:24:35,820 --> 00:24:42,020 What are you doing in... london huh oh well that's that's great well see i'm 338 00:24:42,020 --> 00:24:45,540 getting married too day after tomorrow and i was well i was hoping that you 339 00:24:45,540 --> 00:24:52,520 could uh no i i uh i i guess i can't be your maid of honor either 340 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:59,400 huh yeah well great minds and all that yeah um listen the the best okay 341 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,360 i'll miss you i love you 342 00:25:11,790 --> 00:25:12,790 Oh, Mary. 343 00:25:14,090 --> 00:25:14,650 She 344 00:25:14,650 --> 00:25:23,030 was 345 00:25:23,030 --> 00:25:25,730 the prettiest thing you've ever seen. 346 00:25:27,170 --> 00:25:30,550 Now, I have to give her to another man. 347 00:25:31,710 --> 00:25:35,210 I sure hope you're going to be real good to my little girl. 348 00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:44,400 No, no, it's David's turn. 349 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,060 Max, Max, can I speak to you for a moment? 350 00:25:49,260 --> 00:25:50,920 Yeah. Is it serious? Very serious. 351 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,240 Talk to me later. 352 00:25:56,580 --> 00:26:02,540 If you're a hacker and a TV watcher, two messages have been coming in. 353 00:26:03,980 --> 00:26:07,540 First, the economy is suffering from a failure of business confidence. 354 00:26:08,120 --> 00:26:09,740 Second, business... 355 00:26:23,020 --> 00:26:24,420 Hi. 356 00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:33,700 Could I talk to you? 357 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:39,800 Do you mind if I just turn this off? 358 00:26:41,100 --> 00:26:42,940 I was watching something. 359 00:26:43,900 --> 00:26:46,140 I think this might be a little more important. 360 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,440 Well, maybe it is to you, but not to me. 361 00:26:51,500 --> 00:26:53,680 Elizabeth, I need your help. 362 00:26:55,820 --> 00:27:00,320 See, my friend Dottie Gordon was going to be my maid of honor, but she can't. 363 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,260 fact, she's getting married the day after I am. 364 00:27:03,060 --> 00:27:04,160 Seems to be an epidemic. 365 00:27:08,590 --> 00:27:12,670 I came over here to ask you if, um... If you'd stand up for me. 366 00:27:13,290 --> 00:27:14,290 Me? 367 00:27:14,830 --> 00:27:15,830 Why me? 368 00:27:17,310 --> 00:27:24,250 Um... Because, um... I'll never really be a part of this family until 369 00:27:24,250 --> 00:27:25,250 you've accepted me. 370 00:27:27,210 --> 00:27:28,590 You can't be my mother. 371 00:27:29,170 --> 00:27:30,270 I don't want to be. 372 00:27:32,010 --> 00:27:36,710 I'd like to be, um... I was going to say, um... 373 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,460 Your sister, but you have enough of those, huh? 374 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:48,240 Maybe, um... Maybe you could just think of me as a special friend. 375 00:27:48,900 --> 00:27:53,480 You know, someone to lean on and to listen to you. 376 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,700 I'm an awfully good listener. 377 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,360 I don't need a listener. 378 00:28:00,260 --> 00:28:01,260 You don't? 379 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:05,480 Well, I do. 380 00:28:05,780 --> 00:28:06,780 Sometimes. 381 00:28:07,790 --> 00:28:10,170 Like, um, right now. 382 00:28:11,950 --> 00:28:12,950 Why? 383 00:28:13,530 --> 00:28:19,530 Well, awful lot is happening to me, you know. I mean, all at once. 384 00:28:20,670 --> 00:28:27,430 Pretty soon, um, I'm gonna be a married lady again, and, uh, I'm scared. 385 00:28:30,230 --> 00:28:31,230 So am I. 386 00:28:32,130 --> 00:28:33,950 I'll have eight kids all at once. 387 00:28:35,630 --> 00:28:37,090 Well, I'll have a new, uh, 388 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:38,840 Special friend. 389 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:41,780 I really need you. 390 00:28:43,980 --> 00:28:46,500 I guess I... I need you, too. 391 00:28:47,580 --> 00:28:50,960 Will you, um, come back with me to the shower? 392 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,040 I didn't get you anything. 393 00:28:54,620 --> 00:28:58,460 Elizabeth, all I want from you is you. 394 00:29:08,650 --> 00:29:10,450 It just makes sense to do something. 395 00:29:10,730 --> 00:29:11,730 Sure it does. 396 00:29:11,830 --> 00:29:13,110 Look at old Bill. 397 00:29:13,610 --> 00:29:16,430 I mean, eight kids is enough. Don't you think, Max? 398 00:29:17,090 --> 00:29:20,690 Absolutely. As a matter of fact, you should have come to see me a couple of 399 00:29:20,690 --> 00:29:23,190 ago. Look at your new father -in -law. 400 00:29:23,390 --> 00:29:27,950 I said, Dina must be a wild town. No, no, no, no. I'm not afraid of the kids 401 00:29:27,950 --> 00:29:32,050 that I already have. I'm asking about the kids that I'm going to have. No, no, 402 00:29:32,050 --> 00:29:35,270 mean... I mean, I'm asking about the kids that I don't want to have. 403 00:29:35,610 --> 00:29:37,730 I mean, there must be some... 404 00:29:38,110 --> 00:29:43,050 Really fail -safe way. It is a fail -safe way. 405 00:29:43,350 --> 00:29:45,390 But it takes to find out of being married. 406 00:29:46,350 --> 00:29:47,730 Max, I need your help. 407 00:29:48,670 --> 00:29:49,670 Max! 408 00:29:50,350 --> 00:29:53,010 Tom, the only way to go is a vasectomy. 409 00:29:54,550 --> 00:29:56,350 I was afraid you'd say that. 410 00:29:56,850 --> 00:29:58,070 There's nothing to it. 411 00:29:58,590 --> 00:30:00,370 I've done half the guys in this room. 412 00:30:18,510 --> 00:30:19,590 May I have your attention, please? 413 00:30:20,930 --> 00:30:22,490 It's time for my gift to you. 414 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,000 it must have been some party. 415 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,140 Oh. He's got some pictures. 416 00:31:25,300 --> 00:31:26,760 Dad. Oh, 417 00:31:28,100 --> 00:31:31,080 it's so cute. 418 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,440 I hate to ask you, but they forgot to pay me. 419 00:31:34,860 --> 00:31:35,860 How much? 420 00:31:36,500 --> 00:31:37,500 Fifty. 421 00:31:38,380 --> 00:31:40,260 Fifty? Just a second. 422 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,740 Can you guys help me out here? 423 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,380 Is that enough? 424 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,000 Yeah, thanks. 425 00:31:50,300 --> 00:31:51,300 Thanks. Oh, sure. 426 00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:54,600 You're the bride, aren't you? Yes. 427 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,940 I just wanted you to know he's a perfect gentleman. You're a very lucky lady. 428 00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,000 Thank you. 429 00:31:59,100 --> 00:31:59,959 Good night. 430 00:31:59,960 --> 00:32:00,960 Night. 431 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:09,640 Hey, 432 00:32:14,420 --> 00:32:15,420 Abby! 433 00:32:17,710 --> 00:32:18,710 How was the shower? 434 00:32:18,810 --> 00:32:23,690 Oh, it was lovely. How was the stag party? Oh, I got so drunk. Oh, so I 435 00:32:23,970 --> 00:32:25,310 But when I get sober... What? 436 00:32:25,870 --> 00:32:27,410 I'm going to have a vasectomy. 437 00:32:30,230 --> 00:32:31,950 It's my wedding present to you. 438 00:32:33,530 --> 00:32:34,670 But I don't want it. 439 00:32:35,930 --> 00:32:37,430 What'll happen with our little baby? 440 00:32:38,050 --> 00:32:42,430 Well, not now, but what if I do someday, huh? Oh, what if? That's a good 441 00:32:42,430 --> 00:32:47,390 question. You won't be upset if you don't have it. 442 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,080 Oh, no, I'll do anything you want to do. 443 00:32:51,660 --> 00:32:52,980 Oh, Abby. 444 00:32:53,460 --> 00:32:54,460 What? 445 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:56,500 Do you love me? 446 00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:58,960 Very much. 447 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:00,400 Good. 448 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,320 Yes, I think I'm going to be sick. 449 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,240 Okay, 450 00:33:13,420 --> 00:33:14,420 you can open. 451 00:33:15,370 --> 00:33:17,690 I couldn't wrap it so good. You'll get the idea. 452 00:33:17,910 --> 00:33:18,910 Go ahead, old man. 453 00:33:19,050 --> 00:33:20,050 Yeah? 454 00:33:22,730 --> 00:33:23,730 Fighting? 455 00:33:31,550 --> 00:33:35,790 I give up. 456 00:33:37,830 --> 00:33:40,310 It's your wedding gift. You mean you don't know what it is? 457 00:33:41,230 --> 00:33:42,230 Swizzle sticks? 458 00:33:42,390 --> 00:33:43,430 No, chopsticks. 459 00:33:45,220 --> 00:33:46,220 Oh, of course. 460 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,440 Yes, chopstick. That was nice. 461 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,820 That's just what I needed. 462 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:54,800 Well, you see, it started out as a table, and then it was a chair, and then 463 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,720 turned into bookends, and the wood just kept getting smaller and smaller until 464 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,040 that was all I had left. 465 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:01,960 Oh, this is nice. 466 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,280 Abby and I can share them. 467 00:34:04,740 --> 00:34:07,560 Oh, no, no, no. I'm going to go get another load of wood and make you 468 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,860 pair. Well, listen, don't worry. It's the thought that counts. This is nice, 469 00:34:10,940 --> 00:34:11,940 Tommy. I like it. 470 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,830 Right. After all, what do you get the man who has nothing? 471 00:34:44,139 --> 00:34:45,219 Why can't you sleep? 472 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:46,760 You're getting married. 473 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,239 That's my reason. 474 00:34:52,780 --> 00:34:53,780 How are you? 475 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,620 I'm just trying to remember if I was this nervous before my first wedding. 476 00:34:57,980 --> 00:34:59,600 Got this tick in my eye. 477 00:34:59,940 --> 00:35:03,260 I guess getting married to somebody you love always makes you nervous. 478 00:35:03,580 --> 00:35:04,580 I do love Abby. 479 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,780 And, of course, I'll always love Joan. 480 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,840 I'm just trying to figure if that makes sense. 481 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,360 Of course it does. 482 00:35:13,190 --> 00:35:16,670 You and Mom had 25 years together. You don't just forget that. 483 00:35:16,970 --> 00:35:17,970 I know. 484 00:35:18,930 --> 00:35:21,030 Part of me feels like I'm betraying her. 485 00:35:22,110 --> 00:35:24,150 Like I'm hurting Joan in some way. 486 00:35:25,770 --> 00:35:27,750 How can something so right hurt anybody? 487 00:35:29,230 --> 00:35:30,230 It is right. 488 00:35:31,910 --> 00:35:33,370 I just wish it was over. 489 00:35:35,630 --> 00:35:36,630 Yeah. 490 00:35:40,310 --> 00:35:41,350 It's my wedding. 491 00:35:41,790 --> 00:35:44,790 I know, but that doesn't change the rules that much. Just wait in line. 492 00:35:45,090 --> 00:35:47,090 Why don't you wait in line for your own bathroom? 493 00:35:47,390 --> 00:35:48,388 Yeah. 494 00:35:48,390 --> 00:35:49,710 Nancy is in my bathroom. 495 00:35:51,170 --> 00:35:53,130 What's taking Elizabeth so long, anyway? 496 00:35:53,430 --> 00:35:54,730 Yeah, she's been in there ten minutes. 497 00:35:54,950 --> 00:35:55,950 Let me handle this. 498 00:35:57,530 --> 00:35:58,530 Elizabeth! 499 00:35:59,650 --> 00:36:03,430 I just got into this wedding. I've got to catch up. Well, catch up on your own 500 00:36:03,430 --> 00:36:07,370 time. Daddy, this is a special occasion for me, too. I want to look especially 501 00:36:07,370 --> 00:36:08,370 beautiful for you. 502 00:36:08,790 --> 00:36:11,220 Oh. You are beautiful, Elizabeth. 503 00:36:11,980 --> 00:36:15,100 Oh, Daddy, you just ruined my makeup. Now I've got to start all over. 504 00:36:17,700 --> 00:36:19,900 Boy, you really handled that one, Dad. 505 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,380 Listen, every time I talk to that girl, even when we agree, she winds up closing 506 00:36:24,380 --> 00:36:25,480 the door on my face. 507 00:36:25,740 --> 00:36:26,740 No. 508 00:36:27,780 --> 00:36:28,960 Dad, telephone. 509 00:36:29,820 --> 00:36:30,820 Oh. 510 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,000 Save my place. Uh -uh. 511 00:36:33,240 --> 00:36:34,240 No saving. 512 00:36:44,700 --> 00:36:46,480 Oh, where are you going? 513 00:36:46,900 --> 00:36:48,880 Oh, no, no, no, not you. Somebody else. 514 00:36:49,100 --> 00:36:50,960 You've got your pajamas on. Where are you going? 515 00:36:51,300 --> 00:36:53,880 Across the street. They said I can use the bathroom. 516 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:55,800 Hello? 517 00:36:58,180 --> 00:37:00,280 Uncle Henry, where are you? 518 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,620 At the Sacramento airport. 519 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,920 Oh, no, what? 520 00:37:04,580 --> 00:37:06,580 Dad, they're bringing the tables and chairs in. 521 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,320 Oh, yeah. 522 00:37:08,620 --> 00:37:11,240 Oh, gosh, that's wonderful, Uncle Henry. 523 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,840 Just sit tight. Don't make a move without me. 524 00:37:22,340 --> 00:37:24,640 Right, you can't. I'll be right there. 525 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,040 Oh, listen, David, can you pick up Uncle Henry at the airport? 526 00:37:28,340 --> 00:37:29,900 I thought you didn't invite Uncle Henry. 527 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,360 So did I, but I don't know. Can you? 528 00:37:32,660 --> 00:37:35,100 No, I can't. I've got to pick up the cake after I finish this. 529 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,060 Oh, hi. Listen, can you pick up Uncle Henry? 530 00:37:38,380 --> 00:37:41,040 No, Dad, I won't even get in the bathroom for another half an hour. 531 00:37:41,420 --> 00:37:42,420 Uncle Henry? 532 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:43,760 Uncle Henry. 533 00:37:53,070 --> 00:37:54,390 What are you doing with my doors? 534 00:37:54,710 --> 00:37:57,210 You can't have doors between rooms at a reception. 535 00:37:57,890 --> 00:37:58,890 Interrupts the flow. 536 00:37:58,930 --> 00:38:04,510 But I just... Be careful with those now. 537 00:38:05,090 --> 00:38:06,110 Where does this go? 538 00:38:06,550 --> 00:38:10,270 Oh, the Sequoia National Forest. 539 00:38:10,630 --> 00:38:12,850 Don't waste my time, man. I got too much to do. 540 00:38:13,810 --> 00:38:17,510 There's a good place right there. 541 00:38:31,240 --> 00:38:35,120 Oh, I'm Tom Bradford. Hello? I'm Tom Bradford, too. 542 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,940 Happy wedding to you. 543 00:38:42,900 --> 00:38:45,980 Happy wedding to you. 544 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,460 Happy wedding... 545 00:39:05,770 --> 00:39:09,350 That was Dr. Max. He's trying to deliver a baby before the wedding. 546 00:39:12,310 --> 00:39:15,450 Gee, I'm sorry. I don't think I have anything on me. 547 00:39:15,770 --> 00:39:18,270 Oh, no, that's okay, Dad. I'll take care of it. 548 00:39:19,510 --> 00:39:21,890 Now, uh, what time do you get off work? 549 00:39:39,910 --> 00:39:40,910 Tommy! 550 00:39:45,750 --> 00:39:46,750 Tommy! 551 00:39:47,150 --> 00:39:48,790 Where is everybody? Mary? 552 00:40:14,830 --> 00:40:17,330 Nobody told me a thing. I didn't know they were all going. 553 00:40:17,570 --> 00:40:22,330 Mary has to go pick up Abby and all those other people. And Johnny has to go 554 00:40:22,330 --> 00:40:25,570 pick up that other mister guy. And David has to pick up the cake and stuff. 555 00:40:25,690 --> 00:40:26,690 Hello, hello, hello. 556 00:40:27,130 --> 00:40:28,510 Oh, Uncle Henry. 557 00:40:29,250 --> 00:40:30,830 Oh, gosh, I forgot. 558 00:40:31,290 --> 00:40:35,270 Well, listen, why don't you just take a cab? 559 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,260 Oh, no. Don't tell me I have to drive Abby's car. 560 00:40:48,060 --> 00:40:49,200 Just a second, Dad. 561 00:41:43,959 --> 00:41:45,520 Which minister's supposed to speak first? 562 00:41:45,780 --> 00:41:46,820 Well, how should I know? 563 00:41:47,060 --> 00:41:50,380 Well, they're fighting over it. Well, then tell them to toss a coin. 564 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,620 How do I look, all right? Oh, nervous. 565 00:41:52,980 --> 00:41:54,800 Yeah, I should look nervous, because I am. 566 00:41:55,100 --> 00:41:56,560 Come on, you guys. We're getting ready to start. 567 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:57,760 All right. 568 00:41:58,380 --> 00:41:59,640 Is everyone out here ready? 569 00:42:00,380 --> 00:42:01,580 Nicholas, do you have the ring? 570 00:42:02,780 --> 00:42:04,420 Oh, my goodness. 571 00:42:05,140 --> 00:42:07,260 Mr. Bradford, look, we've got to get down front now. Come on, okay? 572 00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:08,720 Okay, you look fine. 573 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:21,680 I'm nervous about it. Remember, you've done this before. 574 00:42:21,980 --> 00:42:24,120 Some things don't get easier with practice. 575 00:42:24,380 --> 00:42:25,880 Just remember you're among friends. 576 00:44:18,510 --> 00:44:23,330 Dearly beloved, we are gathered here for the most wonderful and yet demanding of 577 00:44:23,330 --> 00:44:25,930 institutions, the act of matrimony. 578 00:44:26,690 --> 00:44:32,830 Both these people have known love before, and yet it is this past love on 579 00:44:32,830 --> 00:44:35,230 they're going to base their future love to work and grow together. 580 00:44:36,170 --> 00:44:43,110 They both know honor and respect, yet can remain independent and still 581 00:44:43,110 --> 00:44:47,790 act as one when faced with the trials of life. 582 00:44:48,380 --> 00:44:49,680 and the demands of family. 583 00:44:52,420 --> 00:44:59,340 Tom, Sandra Sue, Abby, you both bring to this marriage a maturity that 584 00:44:59,340 --> 00:45:00,440 will be your greatest tool. 585 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:06,800 This, combined with endless patience and compassion, will seal your destinies 586 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:07,800 and that of your children. 587 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:14,260 In times of stress, try to recall what first brought you two together and let 588 00:45:14,260 --> 00:45:17,340 that memory be the touchstone of your decisions. 589 00:45:18,570 --> 00:45:19,590 God bless you, Tom. 590 00:45:20,470 --> 00:45:21,770 God bless you, Abby. 591 00:45:27,630 --> 00:45:29,010 May I have the rings, please? 592 00:45:32,050 --> 00:45:33,050 Tom? 593 00:45:33,510 --> 00:45:34,510 Abby? 594 00:45:39,130 --> 00:45:41,850 With this ring, I thee wed. 595 00:45:44,930 --> 00:45:48,030 With this ring, I thee wed. 596 00:45:53,420 --> 00:45:57,300 I now pronounce you husband and wife.